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Last year my wife and I traveled to Mayacoba, Mexico, Valentine's Day week. When we arrived I met the concierge and asked about having a Valentine's dinner on the beach. I saw a picture of it on the website and wondered if I could do it in a short period of time.
He checked it and told me he could. All we had to do was show up at the southern tip of the beach on Valentine's night. When we arrived there was a small gazebo with red hearts hanging down. The table had two chairs and a dozen roses. Nearby was the 4-foot tall Iloveu sign.
The weather was perfect as there was a delicious meal with stunning views. As the sun set, the gazebo lit up and the signs lit. When it was time for dessert, a six-foot-high care bear appeared, illuminating a spark in the middle of the flower. Then the pink and red love mascot reached out for a hug.
This is one of the things you have to do to keep your love life strong. Do something new. (Kurt “Cyberguy” Knutsson)
It was quite the night. It's truly memorable and unforgettable. My wife loved it. We started dating in high school so we celebrated a lot of Valentine's Day, but there was nothing like this. We went to some great places and had special meals. But this was our first time.
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This is one of the things you have to do to keep your love life strong. Do something new.
When traveling around the country sharing a “bigest” message, this is the question I ask every audience. “When was the last time you did something?”
It's very easy to fall into everyday life to focus on work and children. And before you know it, the days are months, the years are old, there is nothing new. New and enjoyable experiences are distant memories. The romantic relationship has turned into a business partnership.
As relationships grow, it reaches a new level. Deeper, more passionate love. This comes from keeping things fresh. By doing something new and deliberately getting out of the mold. It requires intentionality and effort.
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This may not sound very romantic. But you have to work hard to bring your relationship to a higher level. It doesn't just happen. What just happens is that things become old and boring. You become more like a roommate than a lover.
At the beginning of the year, I met with a group of business owners and executives. We have overcome our 2025 goals. Each had a goal to improve their marriage. Having a greater relationship with their spouse.
So I asked them what they were planning for Valentine's Day. No one had planned. The desire was there, but no effort. Planning is work and takes time. But it's worth it.
Doing something new means different for different people. My wife and I recently rode a hot air balloon for the first time. You may prefer it, or the height may not be yours.
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Maybe you know exactly what new things you want to do as a couple. You've never done it before, so now is the time to do it.
If you're not sure, it doesn't have to be a big trip or a special holiday. That may be true, but it may be simpler. A hike you've never taken. A weekend trip to places you always want to visit. An intimate night to try something you've never done before.
Romantic passion is what brought you together as a couple. There are certainly many aspects of loving relationships that require attention. However, there is no prioritization that matters more than your romantic connection.
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That sets you apart from all the other relationships in your life. Make sure to keep it fresh and exciting.
Happy Valentine's Day!
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